In the journey of life, being true to who you are often means standing apart from the crowd. For us, that has come with both challenges and revelations. Our open-mindedness, our willingness to embrace what others might find unconventional, has been met with judgment, false accusations, and sadly, the loss of friendships we once cherished.
We’ve faced harsh words and baseless claims, accusations of things we never did. The pain of being taken to court over our way of life—only for the case to be dropped when the truth came to light—was profound. Yet, the scars from that experience run deep, not just because of the legal battle, but because of the damage done to our reputation and the relationships that crumbled under the weight of lies.
It was heart-wrenching to see people who once stood beside us, selling their goods at our events and sharing our space, turn away. These were people we thought supported us, who we considered friends. But when faced with rumors and accusations, they chose to believe the worst rather than stand by us. It’s a harsh reminder of how quickly things can change when people judge what they don’t understand.
Yet, amid the pain, we’ve also found something beautiful. Through this ordeal, we discovered friends who became more like family. These are the people who saw the truth, who stood by us when others turned their backs. Their support has been a beacon of hope in a time that felt overwhelmingly dark.
Just a few months ago, we encountered someone who, despite their friendly demeanor, was clearly fishing for dirt. Their comments and questions—like suggesting we sell alcohol or 420 during events—were meant to trap us. But instead of reacting with anger or suspicion, we welcomed them. We invited them to sit with us and a visiting neighbor, treating them with kindness and openness, even though we knew their intentions were far from pure. We’ve never done anything close to what they implied, and the most we’ve ever done was offer someone a ride to town so they could make their own purchases.
We are who we are—open-minded, a bit outside the norm, and unafraid to embrace what we love, even if it might seem unconventional to others. In college, I was often criticized for thinking outside the box, for refusing to conform to what others expected. But I’ve found that being true to myself is more important than fitting into someone else’s idea of what is normal.
You don’t have to fit inside the box society has made for you. You need to do what is best for you, even if it means facing judgment or criticism. The key is to be as truthful as possible. We all have secrets, and we all have skeletons in our closets. What matters is how you handle them. For us, it meant facing unfounded accusations and the judgment of others, but ultimately standing tall in our truth.
Respecting others and letting them be who they are is crucial. But it’s equally important to protect yourself. You can be respectful and kind while still keeping those who might harm you at a distance.
Our story is one of resilience, of holding onto our truth in the face of adversity, and of finding strength in the support of those who truly care. We’ve learned that while some may judge us for being different, there are others who will see us for who we truly are and stand by our side.
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Tag: Community building
8 Years of Impact: Our Journey at the Environmental Education Center
It’s hard to believe that eight years ago today, we were helping out at the environmental education center, building a fence and mowing the area for a memorial garden. I miss seeing everyone who used to come out for those work weekends. Sitting around the fire, playing drums once the work was finished, created some of the best memories.
Reflecting on those times makes me feel a bit homesick, missing the camaraderie, the place, and our cozy cabin. The sense of community and purpose we shared was truly special, and it’s something I hold dear even as time goes by.
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Living Off-Grid in the Desert: Embracing Challenges and Rewards
### Living Off-Grid in the Desert: Embracing the Challenges and Rewards
Living off-grid in the desert has its unique set of rewards and challenges. As someone who has spent most of my life in rural settings, transitioning to an off-grid lifestyle was a natural progression. However, my previous experience managing centers for people with mental illnesses provided valuable lessons that apply to our current endeavors.
#### The Joy of Desert Living
The tranquility and beauty of the desert offer an unparalleled sense of peace. The vast landscapes, stunning sunsets, and the simplicity of off-grid living create an environment where one can truly connect with nature. Our off-grid setup has allowed us to create a sustainable lifestyle, relying on solar power.
#### From Managing Centers to Off-Grid Living
In my previous role, I ran centers that provided a safe space for individuals with mental illnesses to meet others, engage in activities, and find support. I was responsible for planning, funding, and organizing events—skills that have proven invaluable in our current off-grid community. The essence of creating a supportive environment remains the same, but now, we also navigate the complexities of living off the land and managing resources sustainably.
#### Facing Unexpected Challenges
One surprising challenge has been dealing with other venues viewing us as competition. Recently, a local venue contacted us quite rudely, outright declaring us as rivals. They even attempted to involve the county to create issues for us, which ultimately backfired and resulted in the county worker getting into trouble. It’s baffling to experience such hostility when our primary goal is to foster community and provide a welcoming space for all.
#### Building a Supportive Community
Despite these challenges, we remain committed to our vision. We aim to build a community where everyone feels welcome and safe, without the fear of judgment or competition. Our focus is on collaboration and mutual support, rather than rivalry. The off-grid lifestyle teaches resilience and adaptability, and we are determined to continue creating a positive impact in our community.
#### Conclusion
Living off-grid in the desert is a rewarding experience that comes with its own set of challenges. Drawing on past experiences and maintaining a focus on community and sustainability helps us navigate these obstacles. We remain dedicated to fostering a supportive environment where everyone can thrive, free from unnecessary competition and hostility.
For more insights on off-grid living and community building, stay tuned to our blog. Together, we can embrace the challenges and joys of desert life.
Visit our website at [www.plateauhamedecolquhoun.com](http://www.plateauhamedecolquhoun.com) for more information.
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#OffGridLiving #DesertLife #SustainableLiving #CommunityBuilding #NatureConnection #DesertChallenges #ResilientLiving #OffGridCommunity #EcoFriendlyLifestyle #RuralLiving
Living Off-Grid in the Desert: Embracing Challenges and Rewards
### Living Off-Grid in the Desert: Embracing the Challenges and Rewards
Living off-grid in the desert has its unique set of rewards and challenges. As someone who has spent most of my life in rural settings, transitioning to an off-grid lifestyle was a natural progression. However, my previous experience managing centers for people with mental illnesses provided valuable lessons that apply to our current endeavors.
#### The Joy of Desert Living
The tranquility and beauty of the desert offer an unparalleled sense of peace. The vast landscapes, stunning sunsets, and the simplicity of off-grid living create an environment where one can truly connect with nature. Our off-grid setup has allowed us to create a sustainable lifestyle, relying on solar power.
#### From Managing Centers to Off-Grid Living
In my previous role, I ran centers that provided a safe space for individuals with mental illnesses to meet others, engage in activities, and find support. I was responsible for planning, funding, and organizing events—skills that have proven invaluable in our current off-grid community. The essence of creating a supportive environment remains the same, but now, we also navigate the complexities of living off the land and managing resources sustainably.
#### Facing Unexpected Challenges
One surprising challenge has been dealing with other venues viewing us as competition. Recently, a local venue contacted us quite rudely, outright declaring us as rivals. They even attempted to involve the county to create issues for us, which ultimately backfired and resulted in the county worker getting into trouble. It’s baffling to experience such hostility when our primary goal is to foster community and provide a welcoming space for all.
#### Building a Supportive Community
Despite these challenges, we remain committed to our vision. We aim to build a community where everyone feels welcome and safe, without the fear of judgment or competition. Our focus is on collaboration and mutual support, rather than rivalry. The off-grid lifestyle teaches resilience and adaptability, and we are determined to continue creating a positive impact in our community.
#### Conclusion
Living off-grid in the desert is a rewarding experience that comes with its own set of challenges. Drawing on past experiences and maintaining a focus on community and sustainability helps us navigate these obstacles. We remain dedicated to fostering a supportive environment where everyone can thrive, free from unnecessary competition and hostility.
For more insights on off-grid living and community building, stay tuned to our blog. Together, we can embrace the challenges and joys of desert life.
Visit our website at [www.plateauhamedecolquhoun.com](http://www.plateauhamedecolquhoun.com) for more information.
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#OffGridLiving #DesertLife #SustainableLiving #CommunityBuilding #NatureConnection #DesertChallenges #ResilientLiving #OffGridCommunity #EcoFriendlyLifestyle #RuralLiving
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