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The Hard Side of Off-Grid Living Nobody Talks About

Living off-grid doesn’t mean life suddenly becomes peaceful and problem-free.
People often picture sunsets, campfires, and freedom from the world. And yes — those moments exist. But so do the everyday human struggles we all carry.

I love our off-grid life. I love what we’ve built — a campground, an event center, the shows, the music, and the community around it. But loving it doesn’t mean it’s easy.

Lately I’ve been dealing less with physical work and more with my own inner self.

I’ve felt questioning, reluctant, and honestly just very tired. Not the kind of tired sleep fixes — the kind where your mind feels heavy and even simple tasks feel harder than they should. When you live off-grid, there isn’t really a day off. The animals still need care, the property still needs attention, and responsibilities don’t pause just because your heart and mind need a moment.

Running a campground and event space adds another layer. The promoting, posting, answering messages, planning events, and handling social media never really stops. Even when my mind needs a break, the work still waits for me in the morning.

What I’m learning is that off-grid living doesn’t remove problems — it removes distractions. Out here you face yourself more directly. There’s more quiet, and in that quiet your thoughts get louder.

Some days I accomplish a lot. Other days I don’t accomplish what I normally would, and that’s been difficult for me to accept. I’m someone who usually pushes forward, keeps creating, keeps building. Slowing down feels uncomfortable, but sometimes necessary.

I’m sharing this because real off-grid life isn’t perfection. It’s still life. We still carry stress, emotions, worry, and growth just like anyone else. The difference is we’re doing it without the background noise of society, and that makes it easier to see and harder to ignore.

I’m still here. I’m still creating. I just also need moments to breathe so I can keep going.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause, reset, and start again tomorrow.

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We Built an Off-Grid Shower With 3 IBC Totes! 🚿 Reusing Water to Grow Trees in the Harsh Desert 🌵

Building Our Off-Grid Shower: Sustainable Living in the Harsh Desert

This summer, we took another big step toward sustainable off-grid living by building our own **off-grid shower system**. The setup uses three IBC totes — one buried in the ground and two for the shower itself. The design allows the shower to **drain directly into the buried tote**, creating a graywater recycling system we can later use to **water trees and plants** around our homestead.

Living off-grid means every project has to serve more than one purpose, and this shower does just that — providing comfort while also helping us prepare for future growth on our land.

Our next step is researching the best **drought-tolerant trees and plants** that can survive in our extreme New Mexico climate. Out here, we face it all:

* **High winds** ️
* **Sandstorms** ️
* **Snow and single-digit winters** ❄️
* **Triple-digit summer heat** 
* **Intense UV exposure** ☀️

We want to choose wisely so that the water from our shower doesn’t go to waste but instead helps create shade, windbreaks, and food sources for the future.

This project reminds us that **off-grid living isn’t about perfection — it’s about creativity, resilience, and finding ways to work with nature instead of against it.**

Stay tuned as we share updates on which trees and plants we decide to grow, and how our off-grid shower continues to play a role in making this desert homestead thrive.

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